Archive for June, 2005

Paul Devs, this is for you…

Monday, June 27th, 2005

sorry i wasn’t able to talk to you well yesterday… i don’t really know your whole story… but i get the idea… so in a nutshell, here’s what i can say about that:

~The Irony of Love~

"The greatest irony of love;
loving the right person at the wrong time,
having the wrong person when the time is right
and finding out you love someone right after
that person walks out of your life…

and sometimes, you think you’re already over a person,
but when you see them smile at you,
you’ll suddenly realize that you’re just pretending
to be over them just to ease the pain of knowing that
they will never be yours again…

For some, they think that letting go is one way
of expressing how much they love that person…
in my opinion, some are afraid to see the one they love
being held by someone else…

Most relationships tend to fail not because
the absence of love. Love is always present.
it’s just that one was being loved too much and the
other was being loved too little…

as we all know that the heart is the center of the body
but it beats on the left. Maybe that’s the reason
why the heart is not always right…

Most often we fall in love with the person we think we love
but to only discover that for them
we are just for passing time. While the one who truly
loves us remains either a friend or a stranger…

So here’s a piece of advice;
let go when you’re hurting too much.
give up when love isn’t enough.
and move on when things are not like before…

For sure there is someone out there
who will love you even more…"

makes sense right? well, hope this helps… ;)

Greatest pieces of advice

Saturday, June 25th, 2005

words that i live by…

Don’t date because you are desperate.
Don’t marry because you are miserable.
Don’t have kids because you think your genes are superior.
Don’t philander because you think you are
irresistible.

Don’t associate with people you can’t trust.
Don’t cheat. Don’t lie. Dont pretend.
Don’t dictate because you are smarter.
Don’t demand because you are stronger.

Don’t sleep around because you think you are old enough
and know better.

Don’t hurt your kids because loving them is harder.
Don’t sell yourself, your family, or your ideals.
Don’t stagnate.
Don’t regress.

Don’t live in the past. Time can’t bring anything or anyone back.
Don’t put your life on hold for possibly Mr/Mrs Right.
Don’t throw your life away on absolutely Mr Wrong because your
biological clock is ticking.

Learn a new skill.
Find a new friend.
Start a new career.
Sometimes, there is no race to be won. Only a price to be paid for
some of life’s more hasty decisions.

To terminate your loneliness, reach out to the homeless.
To feed your nurturing instincts, care for the needy.
To fulfill your parenting fantasies, get a puppy (or a cat)
Don’t bring another life into this world for all the wrong reasons.

To make yourself happy, pursue your passions and be the best of what
you can be.
Simplify your life. Take away the clutter.
Get rid of destructive elements: abusive friends, nasty habits, and
dangerous liaisons.

Don’t abandon your responsibilities but don’t overdose on duty.
Don’t live life recklessly without thought and feeling for your
family.
Be true to yourself.
Don’t commit when you are not ready.
Don’t keep others waiting needlessly.

Go on that trip. Don’t postpone it.
Say those words. Don’t let the moment pass.
Do what you have to, even at society’s scorn.

Write poetry.
Love Deeply.
Walk barefoot.
Dance with wild abandon.
Cry at the movies.

Take care of yourself.
Don’t wait for someone to take care of you.
You light up your life.
You drive yourself to your destination.
No one completes you - except YOU.

It is true that life does not get easier with age.
It only gets more challenging.
Don’t be afraid. Don’t lose your capacity to love.
Pursue your passions.

Live your dreams.
Don’t lose faith in your God.
Don’t grow old. Just grow YOU!

"create your own life then go out
and live it without regrets…"

— anonymous